Yes Break up's are a form of trauma.We have all been there and done that. There are so few that make it through life without getting their heart broken in to a thousand pieces. And yep it hurts like hell. Some people can take a deep breath and move forward...

Ok you find yourself on a Dating / Introduction site... What is that saying to you?  Well to me it is screaming out that you are lonely! After 20 years as a Matchmaker I can tell you right now with complete authority it is incredibly hard to be alone. ...

Why Feedback is so powerful for you!!! What I do, seems simple but so incredibly complex at the same time. I have so many beautiful clients that I speak with ever week and over the years I hate to think how much time I have seriously spent on this phone....

Well the story of my life.... I have wonderful members that coming into my office knowing what they want... Well they think they do. When you join an Introduction Agency like Country Dating you are asked to fill out what we call a Personal Particulars...

Fake Photos / Old photos.  One of the biggest complaints I hear about online dating is the woman using old photos. They are not necessarily someone else but they may as well be. Not one of us wants to grow old unless you are 12 and you can't wait to move out of home...

Date Night  We all know the feeling of having your date over for dinner for the first time. For some it is a dreaded fear and the anxiety it creates is not comfortable at all and at times ruins the night completely. But being organised and with...

  Where are you looking for love? Online, pubs, clubs, facebook? All legitimate places to find your one and only. But you know what? Sometimes that just does not work. Meeting people is easy as pie for most. It is meeting that special person that makes you...

Everyone is here for the same reason so people we all need to be on the same page. Well, you would think we were. So let me put it into perspective. So Dave how did you go with Karen? Well she sounded really nice but we didn’t get around to meeting Oh why what...

Christmas can go both ways. Family fun, excitement, joy to the world I'm sure you get my drift. The other end of the scale can be soul destroying, dark, lonely and makes you wonder "Why?". Being single at Christmas does sux. But most people still have family around...

Most of you know. Murrumbateman Accommodation Every year I head off to the Murrembaitman field days just out of Canberra for one of our major Win a date promotions for the year. Well I just want to share the little gem I stay at. The hosts are so friendly and happy to...

Coffee Tried and True or Dull?  We have all met up with someone at some stage for a coffee. If you are in the Dating scene we know coming up with new and impressive dating plans can become expensive.  The advantage of meeting your date for a coffee is, firstly it is...

Henty Field Days 2017 We are so happy with this years Henty Field Days 2017. The weather was exquisite and the crowd in a stellar mood.  Tuesday was a little slow but I put that down to the weather being a little chilly. But I have to admit that it was far better than...

There are thousands of choices we make everyday. Make the wrong ones and you life will not be worth being a part of. Make the right ones an your life will be abundant with love, happiness and everything you have been looking for. 1. Choose someone that is fun easy...

Bring Back the Romance. Country dating Style.  Romance on first Date. This is not something you want to over do or it just comes across creepy, needy or desperate. So I have listed a few simple things that might get you a second date. For the Gents Open the door....

The Manor House. Having young children, dining out somewhere special is not usually high on our agenda. Last week an occasion arose that encouraged me to organised a baby sitter, dress up and step out on the town.  The Manor House was the destination chosen. Being a...

If you’re savvy about dating, you’ll realise that certain questions–even the most basic ones—have the ability to tell a lot about a person. Here, we’ve divided your hypothetical first date into five phases and suggested a series of questions to ask your potential...