I want to share with you 3 Awesome Mindset Strategies to rocket your love life. Our minds are so powerful and when we let self-doubt and anxiety set in it can soon destroy any hope pf you creating the future you want and dream of.

What inspired me to put together this Bolg and Podcast was I lost a lovely client this week and it has really played on my mind.  Don’t worry she did not die !!!

What happened is she met a few gents and actually really liked one. But nothing happened and it really played havoc with her confidence.  There is absolutely nothing wrong with this lady AT ALL she is actually very attractive. It all came down to the fact that there was no connection on the gents part. No one can help that and there is absolutely nothing anyone can do about it.

What this beautiful lady needs to do along with everyone who is heading down the dating path are three mind shifts. There are so many people out there that limit themselves for exactly the same reason. They think they are protecting themselves. What they are really doing is stopping themselves from being happy, more engaged in life, more fulfilled and more present in life.

Dating can be really hard OR it can be really fun.  Today I want to share with you three really life-changing mindset shifts you can work on to change your  Dating life.

  1. Believe in yourself.

You are awesome and it is their loss if they are not interested. It does not matter how great you are. If that connection is not there, there is absolutely nothing anyone can do about it. If they are not interested it is not saying you are not good enough. It is not that at ALL. It is saying “You are just not the one.”

And again. There is nothing you can do about it. So believe in yourself and keep moving forward knowing there is an abundance of singles out there and you just need to connect with the right one.

This mindset shift will help you move on, it will help you stop dwelling on what is not going to happen and take to the next level.

  1. Show Up, Show up in life, Be present, Be you.

 This won’t just change your dating life it will change your world. Get off social media, turn off the TV, be a part of the world. If you want to attract someone amazing to your life you need to be there living a life. Not just waiting for it to happen.

I know you’ve got this! Just smile and show. It is that easy. Be a part of the community.

  1. Believe you are worthy.

Say it. “I am worthy”  Three simple words that are so so powerful. These three words can create such an impact on your life.  You are worthy of love. You are worthy of dreaming. You are worthy of self-respect. You are defiantly worthy of a true relationship that can make you happy beyond your wildest dreams. Life is happening right now. It slows down for no one and if you want be present and take advantage of life’s opportunities that you are most defiantly worthy of. You need to know and believe you are worthy.

Say it  & say it often. “I AM WORTHY!”

So they are the 3 Mind Set Shifts that are game changes. They will give you the confidence to keep moving forward. Keep meeting singles. When you meet the right one that becomes your soul mate and your best friend you will know.

Now have an awesome day and don’t forget.

Believe in yourself

Show up in life

Know you are worthy. 

Dating can be hard but with these tools, in your arsenal your life will be amazing.


Sarah Schmidt